How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Without Losing Your Self Respect

Get Your Ex Back FAST!

Trying to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back without becoming “that crazy chick?” Don’t worry, it can be done, but you need to careful about whose advice you follow. The problem is a lot of women collect every trick in the book and then use them all at once. Can you say, “bunny boiler?”

To help you keep your guy and your self respect in the process, here are some no-stress, no-drama tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back.

Take some time out

Whatever you do, don’t act on the emotions you have right after the breakup.  Maybe you feel like showing up at his house with a batch of freshly baked chocolate chip cookies and pouring your heart out about everything you did wrong. Once you’ve had a few days to gain some perspective, though, you’ll see
why that’s a bad idea.

Don’t even so much as IM your ex until you at least feel like you can live without him. When you talk to your guy again, you need to come across as fun and attractive-or at least emotionally stable-or you risk scaring him for good.

Think over why you broke up

Let’s face it, when we get used to a guy, we can all become a little demanding, nagging, and overly emotional. Take a long hard look at how you’ve changed since you first met each other and take steps to show your ex you won’t be like that again. This is another reason most tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back will tell you to rein in your emotions and be more like the fun, confident woman you were when he first met you.

Stay attractive

You may not know this exactly, but if you have some idea of what it was about you your guy found attractive, play up that trait a little (assuming you enjoy it, too). Maybe you loved to go hiking together or he admired your passion for politics. Whatever it was, get involved with it again and make sure your mutual friends know.

One thing you don’t want to do, though, is start dating again. Your ex might presume you’re no longer interested in him and not even try to make contact even if he does start missing you.

Get good advice

As you’ve probably noticed, just about everyone has an opinion to give you on how to get your ex boyfriend back. While some of your friends might come up with pretty practical advice, you never know which tip might backfire on you. To keep things simple, look from proven advice from those experienced in
mending relationships, such as marriage counselors.

The main thing to keep in mind when you’re trying to decide how to get your ex boyfriend back is to stay calm and not grab at every piece of advice you come across. As long as your ex sees that you really are still the person he used to
love, following a proven plan from a professional relationship counsel can bring your guy back faster than you might think.

by Cheryl Pierce - October 9, 2008

Back to Top

 Source: 

If you want to learn more about how to mend a broken relationship, please view the free video on our website: Breakup Recovery - Moving On.